Originally, the bouquet was given to a friend selected by the bride for good luck or protection. Nowadays the tossing of the bouquet to unmarried guests at the wedding has come to mean the transfer of luck in marriage from the bride, or being the next to marry.  Although traditions vary widely, it is typically blindly thrown to unmarried female guests. It is also a mark of transition of the bride from unmarried to a married woman. It should be noted that it is not necessary to toss the bouquet at your reception. If desired, you may give the bouquet to a special person if desired as part of a presentation ceremony.

If you do decide to toss the bouquet at your reception your DJ will play the song you previously selected specially for the bouquet toss. It would be OK if the you teased and flaunted the bouquet at the unmarried guests prior to tossing it.

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